I finally found it!

Thanks to my friend Meli, author of A Melificent Blog, I have finally found my dining room lamp! Yey! She did a post about the store called CB2, which I had never heard of before so I decided to check it out. Low and behold, there in the lighting department was the Oversized Equator Pendant Lamp, it's the width that I was looking for (34.75 inches), since the dining room table is pretty long, I needed a lamp that had the right amount of width to it so that it wouldn't be dwarfed by the table. Unfortunately, all the lamps I had found were $400 and up. However, this lovely is at a very reasonable $199!